I cannot sing Emily Nagoski’s praises enough. I read her book Come As You Are back in the fall, and then I read it again a month later. And now my partner is reading it.
After 50 years of being sexually active, I’m pretty confident about my body and my sex life. Even so, living with someone else is not always spontaneous (kaboom) sex, even though we are each other’s best-ever lovers. We love responsive, snuggly, morning sex too, where sometimes we don’t even orgasm, but just play with each other’s bodies.
And all of it is NORMAL.
These videos are the best: