We went to a Meet and Greet in Raleigh. We rented a hotel room overnight.
It was Mardi Gras weekend so we had dressed up a bit (as the invite suggested), but when we got there we noticed that nobody else really had.
The facility was MUCH smaller than we expected. The first couple who approached us were very different than their pictures: older, fatter. (We have nothing against a extra few pounds, but at least put up recent pics!)
We talked to a couple of people, but left pretty quickly, as everyone seemed to know everyone else and nobody really made us feel welcome.